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N4  ·  Wanting and intending

Giving advice: たほうがいい

たほうがいい and ないほうがいい

The た-form plus ほうがいい says "you had better"; the ない-form plus ほうがいい says "you had better not".

At a glance

Remember
Do it: たほうがいい. Don't: ないほうがいい.
Form
休(やす)んだほうがいいyou had better rest
Signal words
  • 〜たほうがいい
  • 〜ないほうがいい
  • ほうがいいですよ
  • ほうがいいですか
Trap
Wrong:あまり無理(むり)をしなかったほうがいいですよ。
Right:あまり無理(むり)をしないほうがいいですよ。

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The form

The patterns at a glance

Each row first says when or what the pattern is used for, then gives an example in Japanese.

you had better rest休(やす)んだほうがいい
you had better go行(い)ったほうがいい
you had better not go行(い)かないほうがいい
polite行(い)ったほうがいいです
friendly advice行(い)ったほうがいいですよ
should I …?行(い)ったほうがいいですか

The rules one by one

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  1. た-form + ほうがいい gives advice: "you had better".

    熱(ねつ)があるなら、病院(びょういん)に行(い)ったほうがいいですよ。If you have a temperature, you should see a doctor.

  2. ない-form + ほうがいい: "you had better not".

    夜(よる)遅(おそ)く一人(ひとり)で歩(ある)かないほうがいいです。You had better not walk alone late at night.

  3. The past form here does not mean the past.

    明日(あした)は早(はや)く起(お)きたほうがいい。You had better get up early tomorrow.

  4. Ask for advice with ほうがいいですか.

    予約(よやく)したほうがいいですか。Should I book?

Example sentences

風邪(かぜ)なら、今日(きょう)は休(やす)んだほうがいいですよ。If you have a cold, you should take today off.

寒(さむ)いから、コートを着(き)たほうがいい。It's cold, so you had better wear a coat.

その水(みず)は飲(の)まないほうがいいです。You had better not drink that water.

大事(だいじ)な話(はなし)だから、直接(ちょくせつ)会(あ)って話(はな)したほうがいいと思(おも)います。It is an important matter, so I think you should talk to them in person.

雨(あめ)が降(ふ)りそうだから、傘(かさ)を持(も)って行(い)ったほうがいいよ。It looks like rain, so you had better take an umbrella.

怒(おこ)っているときは、メールを送(おく)らないほうがいい。When you are angry, it is better not to send emails.

7 more example sentences

もっと野菜(やさい)を食(た)べたほうがいいですよ。You should eat more vegetables.

知(し)らない人(ひと)にドアを開(あ)けないほうがいい。Better not open the door to strangers.

旅行(りょこう)の前(まえ)に、保険(ほけん)に入(はい)ったほうがいい。You should take out insurance before the trip.

分(わ)からないことは、先生(せんせい)に聞(き)いたほうがいいと思(おも)う。I think you should ask the teacher about anything you don't understand.

今日(きょう)はもう帰(かえ)ったほうがいいんじゃない?Shouldn't you go home now?

寝(ね)る前(まえ)にコーヒーは飲(の)まないほうがいいですよ。You'd better not drink coffee before bed.

駅(えき)までタクシーで行(い)ったほうがいいですか。Should I take a taxi to the station?

The trap English speakers fall into

Watch out

Having learnt that advice takes the past form, learners put the negative into the past as well. But the past tense belongs only to positive advice; the negative is the plain ない-form, しないほうがいい.

Wrong:あまり無理(むり)をしなかったほうがいいですよ。
Right:あまり無理(むり)をしないほうがいいですよ。

The full explanation

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ほう is "side" or "direction", and ほうがいい is literally "that side is good" — of two possibilities, this one is better. After the past form of a verb it gives advice: 早(はや)く寝(ね)たほうがいい, "you had better go to bed early"; 病院(びょういん)に行(い)ったほうがいいですよ, "you should see a doctor". The past form does not mean the past here; it presents the advised action as done, as if looking back from the better outcome.

Negative advice uses the ない-form, not the past: 無理(むり)をしないほうがいい, "you had better not overdo it". なかったほうがいい is not the usual form. In polite style です goes on the end: ほうがいいです, and very often よ follows, to make the advice sound helpful rather than bossy.

The dictionary form also occurs — 早(はや)く寝(ね)るほうがいい — and is common when two courses of action are being compared in general. As personal advice to the person in front of you, the た-form is the usual and stronger choice.

English "should" covers advice, duty and expectation. Only advice is たほうがいい. A duty or a rule is なければならない, and an expectation — "the train should arrive soon" — is はず. And advice to a superior is a risk in any form: たほうがいいですよ to a teacher or a boss tells them what to do, which is why softer suggestions such as 〜てはいかがですか exist.

A closer look

Advice, duty and expectation

English "should" carries three different meanings, and each has its own Japanese pattern. Advice — what would be good for you — is たほうがいい. Duty — what a rule or a situation demands — is なければならない: 薬(くすり)は毎日(まいにち)飲(の)まなければならない.

Expectation — what ought to be the case — is はず: 荷物(にもつ)は明日(あした)届(とど)くはずです, "the parcel should arrive tomorrow". Translating every "should" as ほうがいい turns predictions into advice: 届(とど)いたほうがいい would tell the parcel what to do.

Exceptions and special cases (1)
  • two general options are compared rather than advice given

    the dictionary form is normal: 電車(でんしゃ)で行(い)くほうが早(はや)い, "going by train is quicker".

    自分(じぶん)で作(つく)るほうが安(やす)いです。Making it yourself is cheaper.

    With an adjective other than いい, ほう is simply one side of a comparison, as in 〜より〜のほうが, and the verb stays in its plain present.

Worth knowing (1)
  • Softening with と思います

    Advice on its own can sound like an instruction. Adding と思(おも)います presents it as an opinion, and んじゃないですか as a gentle question. Both are common when the listener is not a close friend.

    もう少(すこ)し待(ま)ったほうがいいと思(おも)います。I think it would be better to wait a little longer.

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