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Giving and taking criticism

The phrases that keep a difficult conversation from boiling over.

Two ordinary verbs in this list lead a second life. Einstecken is what you do with your keys and your phone before leaving the house: you put them in your pocket, and a plug is eingesteckt too. In a disagreement the same verb means taking a blow without hitting back — criticism, a defeat, a jibe. Its partner austeilen splits the same way: it hands out cards, soup or leaflets, and in a meeting it hands out criticism. Together they make a saying you will hear whenever someone sharp-tongued suddenly takes offence: Wer austeilt, muss auch einstecken können. The object usually settles which meaning is meant. Das Handy einstecken is housekeeping; viel einstecken müssen is a bad afternoon. Both verbs are separable, so the particle waits at the end of the clause: Sie steckt viel ein, aber sie teilt auch aus. Most of the other words here aim to make neither necessary.

The words

Verb (12)

bemängelnto find fault withVerbC1
Die Prüferin bemängelte vor allem die fehlenden Quellenangaben.Above all, the examiner found fault with the missing references.

Takes an accusative object: the thing, not the person.

beanstandento object to (formally)VerbC1
Der Kunde hat die Rechnung schriftlich beanstandet.The customer has lodged a written complaint about the invoice.

Noun: die Beanstandung. Common in complaints about goods and invoices.

monierento take issue with (formal)VerbC2
Der Betriebsrat monierte, dass die Pläne ohne ihn beschlossen worden waren.The works council took issue with the plans having been decided without it.

Formal; typical of reports and minutes.

nörgelnto grumble, to nagVerbC1
Er nörgelt an jedem Entwurf, macht aber nie einen eigenen Vorschlag.He grumbles about every draft but never puts forward one of his own.

an etwas or über etwas nörgeln. Noun: der Nörgler.

sich rechtfertigento justify oneselfVerbC1
Statt zuzuhören, begann er sofort, sich zu rechtfertigen.Instead of listening, he immediately started justifying himself.

sich für etwas rechtfertigen. Noun: die Rechtfertigung.

einlenkento back down, to come roundVerbC1
Nach langem Hin und Her musste die Abteilungsleitung schließlich einlenken.After much back and forth, the department heads finally had to back down.

Separable: sie lenkte ein.

abwiegelnto play down (a complaint)VerbC1
Wer jede Beschwerde abwiegelt, hört irgendwann keine mehr.If you play down every complaint, sooner or later you stop hearing any.

Separable: er wiegelte ab. Disapproving.

zugestehento concede, to grant (a point)VerbC1
Ich gestehe Ihnen zu, dass die Frist sehr knapp war.I grant you that the deadline was very tight.

Separable and irregular: gestand zu, zugestanden. Takes the dative of the person.

beschwichtigento placate, to sootheVerbC1
Mit ein paar ruhigen Sätzen gelang es ihr, den aufgebrachten Kollegen zu beschwichtigen.With a few calm sentences she managed to placate her irate colleague.
zurückrudernto backpedalVerbC1
Als die Kritik lauter wurde, musste der Sprecher zurückrudern.When the criticism grew louder, the spokesman had to backpedal.

Separable: er ruderte zurück.

einsteckento take (criticism, a blow)VerbC1
Wer so hart austeilt, muss auch einstecken können.If you dish it out that hard, you have to be able to take it.

Separable. Literally to put in your pocket.

austeilento dish it outVerbC1
In Sitzungen teilt er gern aus, aber auf Kritik an sich selbst reagiert er gekränkt.In meetings he likes dishing it out, but he takes offence at any criticism of himself.

Separable. Literally to hand out, as with cards or food.

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