N2 · 40 words
Polite language at work
The humble and honorific words used with clients, visitors and senior colleagues.
Polite Japanese at work runs in two directions. Honorific words raise the other side — 御社, お見えになる — and humble words lower your own — 弊社, 拝見する, 伺う. The line between the two runs between companies, not between ranks: speaking to a client, you use humble words even about your own director. English has nothing like it, which is why the commonest mistake is to honour your own side. The basic honorific verbs such as いらっしゃる come earlier; these are the ones that office life adds.
The words
Verb (17)
拝見するto see; to look at (humble)VerbN3
Humble for 見る.
拝読するto read (humble)VerbN2
Humble for 読む; what is read belongs to the person you are honouring.
拝借するto borrow (humble)VerbN2
拝聴するto listen to (humble)VerbN2
存じるto know; to think (humble)VerbN3
Humble for 知る and 思う; “I do not know” is 存じません.
存じ上げるto know (a person; humble)VerbN2
Used of knowing a person, not a fact.
承るto receive; to hear (humble)VerbN2
Humble for 受ける and 聞く: an order, a message, a request.
伺うto visit; to ask (humble)VerbN3
Humble for 行く, 訪ねる and 聞く.
申し上げるto say (humble)VerbN3
Humbler than 申す; also after お + stem, as in お願い申し上げます.
申し伝えるto pass on (a message; humble)VerbN2
参上するto call on; to come (very humble)VerbN2
Very humble; mostly in set phrases.
お目にかかるto meet (humble)VerbN2
Humble for 会う.
頂戴するto receive (humble)VerbN2
Humble for もらう; from a child, ちょうだい means “give me”.
賜るto be granted; to receive (from above)VerbN2
Written and ceremonial.
お見えになるto come (honorific)VerbN2
Honorific for 来る.
ございますto be; to exist (very polite)VerbN3
Polite for ある; でございます for です.
恐れ入るto be sorry; to be grateful (humble)VerbN2
恐れ入りますが opens a polite request.
This list belongs to Politeness, favours and manners — six lists and 240 words that can also be practised as a whole.
Practise this list
Multiple choice and gaps, drawn from exactly these 40 words. Whatever you get wrong comes back tomorrow.